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She Says:
“The secret of having a personal life is not answering too many questions about it.” - Joan Collins
We do not keep any secrets or whatsoever from the boys unless it is to prevent them from getting hurt. I don’t understand how telling him everything about the girl’s world will help him. I don’t want to shatter the pink dream that he holds of women. It will hurt us both.
Sometimes, it’s okay not to talk about it at all, right?
The Ex
So what if he said he wanted me back? The one I love now is you. Yes, he has been sending me messages from time to time, but I didn't reply him at all. Really.
What do you mean your friend saw us kissing in a club? That wasn't me!
Bottomline: It might just be a spur of the moment, which did not mean anything at all. But unless you're ready to deal with an enraged boyfriend, do not admit to your infidelity. With his male ego, he would not be able to take this lying down.
The O between U and I:
C'mon, it should be a compliment for you that I think your best friend looks good. I am not saying that he looks better than you! He is just a “thing of beauty, joy forever.” You are the one I love.
Don’t tell me you haven’t seen all the girls looking at his deep blue eyes, strong broad shoulders, shining 32 smiles, upright posture and that one-and-a-half inch dimple on his left cheek that makes women go woozy? No, honey, I'm just telling you what my girlfriends have been telling me, not that I noticed.
Bottomline: No matter how hot you actually think his friend(s) is/are, never admit to it or you'd risk hurting his pride, or evoking paranoia in possessive boyfriends.
No-no to Shopping Stories:
Well yes, when I went out with the girls the other day, we came across this Prada Shop and I saw this sweetheart (bag) that I had to buy. I didn’t think it was important enough to tell you. I knew you wouldn’t be able to comprehend the need for it. The only reason why I hid it under the bed was because it would have hurt you (to know I used your credit card).
Don't you think it makes you look good too if I'm carrying such a classy bag when I'm with you?
Bottomline: Do not expose your superficiality unnecessarily or he'd think you're a girl of high-maintenance (even if it's the truth). If found out, always claim you are looking pretty for him.
The means and modes:
Why would I resort to such desperate means as to give you a blank call? You must be mistaken, or your friends are messing with you.
I wasn’t looking at you during tutorial, I was just trying to look for the attendance sheet that was being passed around. You are thinking too much.
Bottomline: Never admit to your silly tactics (which are failing miserably) to get your eye candy to notice you, or you'd risk looking desperate, not only to him, but also to everyone around him. That is, unless you are certain that he has a thing for you too.
The F-word:
I'm not flirting, especially not with your friends (at least not in front of you)! I was just trying to be friendly. You wouldn't want your girlfriend to be known as the social recluse, would you?
Bottomline: Yes, attracting male attention is nice, but never admit that you are secretly enjoying it.
The Future:
Who says I'm eager to marry you? We are just going to see where this relationship is going, the way you want it, right? What makes you think I've selected the turquoise tiles for our bathrooms, the light mow paint for our house, the flowers for our garden and the bikes for our children, Mesia and Sebia? Unless...you're the one who has been thinking about it (too)?
Bottomline: Hold your horses. You might have started fantasizing about building a home with him after just one week of dating, but keep it to yourself, or you'd be adding unnecessary pressure on him, especially when he's not thinking along the same line as you...at least not yet. HOOKED
Have you ever admitted to any of the above? Comment and tell us how it went! After all, these Unspeakables are subject to personal opinions (and experiences)!
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Written by Earthy1983 on 2007-10-01 02:55:55
Damn, this post came too late...  | Written by Reddy on 2007-10-01 04:47:25
Awesme article man! |
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